My sweet Mom went to be with the Lord. She was just 58 when she passed away. It was
November 5, 2002. I miss her so much. She was such a huge part of my life. Here are a few pictures in memory of her. I have put some of the oldest pictures I could find to the more recent ones....
My mom was a BEAUTIFUL woman... both inside and out. She laughed a lot! I remember in her year book from high school it said, "Her every word begins a laugh". SO TRUE. She and I were the best of friends. She loved to shop and she loved to give gifts. She was all about fashion and to a fault bought me WAY TOO MUCH clothes. (I loved it though). My mom was all about movies. She could quote who won what academy award for what movie. She was on top of her entertainment news. I could always make her laugh by quoting her favorite lines from Forrest
Gump. She was an
extrovert but she enjoyed time alone. She worked for the City of Port Arthur for 20-something years. Her and my dad were married for 32 years. They adopted my brother when she was 29 and they had me when she was 31.
Honestly, one of the things that grieves me most is that the years she was on this earth, I was all about "me" and didn't take time to ask her every question I wish I could now ask. If I could sit with her today, I would ask her every question under the sun. My mom was all about me when she was on this earth. We spent HOURS talking. She could calm my heart, heal my hurts, and make me laugh ... but most of all I could make her laugh and I think she was my number one fan.
Born on December 14, 1943, my mom (Mary Kay) was born to Josephine and Frank
Drago. She was the baby of the
family (she had two older brothers) and if I remember correctly, my grandmother was about 39 or 40 when she had my mom. My mom grew up in Port Arthur, Texas (where I too grew up). She was a full blooded Italian woman who was educated in Catholic school all her life. My mom was diagnosed with Alzheimer's when she was 54. My dad passed away when my mom was 57 and right after he passed away, she was diagnosed with cancer. She had small cell carcinoma (lungs). We went through 9 months of treatment and 9 months of remission. All the while, she was fading because of
Alzheimers. We were losing her in every way. She looked different, she acted different, she was a completely different person. In October of 2002, the cancer moved to her brain and in November, my precious mom, my best friend, my number one fan (tied now with Ted and my kids) left this earth. She died 18 months to the day after my dad. Two days after she died, our son Aidan was born. A gift of joy in the midst of our sorrow.
I had no idea how much more I would grieve over the years to come after her death. There are so many things I long for from her. Most of all, just to know her. To see her with my kids. To ask her what I was like at this age or that age. To hear her voice. To touch her skin. To go to the mall with her :-) I honestly could go on and on but it's in my heart and I trust the Lord to heal my heart... one stitch at a time.
I rejoice because my mom knew Jesus before her death. She is now with Him. No more pain, no more suffering. And joined once again with my dad. She is praising HIM before the throne crying "Holy Holy Holy is the LORD GOD ALMIGHTY... who was and is and is to come!"
I do long for the day that I will say those words with her... but for now... to live is Christ! and for her to die was gain... for she is with her maker, her savior... with her mind in tact and her body healed. TO GOD BE THE GLORY. This life we live is but a breath compared to Eternity... MAY I LIVE WITH MY EYES OFF OF THE TEMPORAL... because it is truly fading away!

My mom at our wedding. Jan 6, 1996

Riding the go-cart with my brother. My guess is that this is in the late 80's.

My mom standing at the kitchen sink. I lived in the same house from the day I was born until the day I married.

My parents... Mom is sporting the highlights! She often was told she looked like Liza Monellie (not sure if I spelled that right)

My mom played the bugel. Which is so funny to me. She was voted Colleen of the year and this picture appeared in her year book.

My mom when she was younger


I love these old pictures of her. I was told ALL THE TIME when I was young how much I looked like her.
What a precious precious lady. I love her so very much!
Fun Facts about Mary Kay:
1. She called Wal-Mart... Wal-Marts
2. She called Tylenol... Telenol
3. She watched the Young and the Restless for YEARS! My cousin Dana and I would watch her as she watched the show because she would make the BEST expressions!
4. Her and I laughed so hard one time during Mass that my dad got mad and walked out... we were still in Mass laughing... not good. I am sure the priest was not happy with us.
5. While my mom was sick she watched the Best of Johnny Carson A TON OF TIMES. I loved to hear her laugh so I would put it on just to hear her giggle.
6. She loved to shop... LOVED TO SHOP. I think we did a lot of retail therapy in life.
7. She loved to decorate the house.
8. She always gave things to me... for example... I would ask to borrow her lipstick and she would say "do you like it? you can have it" SO GIVING!
9. She loved to drink Sprite
10. She loved BBQ Crab (I do too but I haven't had it since my last trip to Sartins with my mom after my dad's death). It was my 25th birthday. May 2001.
11. She had the best fingernails.
I will add more as I think of them and have time... This has been such a precious exercise for me and thank you to all that commented about her. What a gift to me and my children!